Wednesday, February 14, 2018

Blog 35 - Wednesday, February 14, 2018

Today is Valentine's Day!

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How do you feel about LOVE?

Is everyone destined to find their soulmate?

Can teenagers fall in LOVE?

Explain.

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45 comments:

  1. I think everyone can find love if they want to. If you try to find someone and you are attracted to someone take a chance even though it might not be your soulmate but there is a possibility. I believe everyone is destined to find their soulmate. You might meet him/her in your teens or in your 40s it all depends on when you actually encounter them.Lastly, teenagers can find love. I believe when you are mature enough to be in love you can definitely fall in love.

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    1. I agree. If you look for love you'll most likely find it!

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    2. Is the word minimum 60 or 120?

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  2. Love is normal but I've never been in love. I've had crushes before but I've never felt true love to another being expect my cat. God She's just adorable. I don't believe that there's one person in the world meant for you, I believe that there's multiple people that you'll consider your possible soulmate. I suppose that one day we find the first possible soulmate and stick with that one. I think teenagers can fall in love but don't take my word for it.

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    1. I bet ur cats amazing!

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    2. I love my dogs like you love your cat. pet are so much better than people.

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  3. I think that everyone is destined to find their soulmate, but it takes time. There are so many people in the world and so many people to fall in love with. You could fall in love with anyone. I personally think that teenagers can fall in love but I don’t think it lasts a lifetime. When your a teenager you get a boyfriend or girlfriend just for fun and it’s not that serious.

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    1. I agree, high school relationships aren't serious, great blog!!!

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    2. I agree! You need to be patient. Your soulmate is out there somewhere!
      Great blog:)

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  4. Valentine’s Day is not one of my favourite days. I don’t like it that much because it makes a lot of people feel lonely. People that have lost loved ones, people who have just recently been separated or people who just are single may feel a little bit sad, and definitely alone. I’m definitely one for love, even though I haven’t found it yet. It makes sense though, and all this stuff about teenagers being in love is absurd. Having girlfriends and boyfriends at such a young age is ridiculous because, let’s be real, it’ll never last. Maybe they can make it a few months, maybe a year but nobody’s getting married anytime soon. It’s more important to focus on your grades. That’s the only thing that you can be certain of that’ll affect your future. I think everyone is eventually destined to find someone they love, even though I do not believe in soulmates. You can love practically anyone for things that you find interesting and lovable in a person. But once you love someone, you will never be able to unlove them. Maybe you’ll dislike them, but once you have fallen for them you can’t just unlove them. It's a fact. Therefore, soulmates are ridiculous. And so is Valentine’s day.

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  5. I personally don’t like Valentine’s Day. I think that you should be showing the person that you’re with your love for them everyday! I love love. When I see to people in love I say to myself “I want to feel the way they feel”. Everyone is destined to find their soulmate. It may take you a long time and multiple marriages, but they’re out there waiting to find you. I’m not sure if teenagers can fall in love. They may think that they’re in love, but in the end, they really aren’t. I’m not saying that it’s impossible. There is that 1% who are high school sweethearts, truly fall in love and are together forever. I just think that some teenagers get too attached and need to realise that they are still kids!

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    1. I agree Valentine's Day shouldn't be the only day people show each other they love their significant other

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    2. I agree with you. We’re still kids!!

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  6. I like valentines day for the chocolates but otherwise it's completely useless. Every day should be valentines day because there isn't a specific day to confess you love for somebody especially not to show appreciation to your soulmate. That she happen everyday. I'm gonna stop looking for love because I'm not ready for a relationship, no one is really at are age. Some people will disagree and they claim they have love but it's most likely not true and the relationship won't last long. BTW this is only for most of the people. There are some people who can hold a steady and normal relationship at a younger age. In the end, not everyone is made perfectly so we can't get are hopes up.

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    1. Love. isn't. real... But yeah chocolates are good

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  7. Love isn't real, Love dies, no, teenagers just get foolish. I would just end it there but that's not sixty words so here is a lesson I've learned from friends, family and personal experiences. You begin all defensive and won't give them everything, and once you get attached, they twist and kill your insides every single time. If there's one thing my father has taught me is "the less you care the better." Which is true because, can't never trust anyone.

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    1. Interesting opinion

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    2. ty 4 sharin sorry 4 what happened to u if it was a personal experience

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  8. I’ve personally never been in love, but that doesn’t mean I don’t believe in it! I don’t understand the rush for relationships at this age! We’re still growing into ourselves . We’re still at such a fragile stage in our lives. I think most kids our age aren’t ready for relationships. If it happens, then it happens. But forcing it for the purpose of dating someone doesn’t excite me. A lot of people dream of marrying someone and growing old with them. A lot of people want to be loved. But I think a lot of us now feel pressured to date. Which I think is completely ridiculous. We shouldn’t be taught that our self-worth depends on other people’s affection towards us. We should be taught to love ourselves before anyone else. If you need to date someone in order to feel good about yourself, then I don’t think you’re ready for a relationship

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    1. I completely agree, Lauren. Great blog!

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  9. I feel that love is something you develop as you can not love a person without knowing them. So is hate. I do not believe in love at first sight.However, I feel like many people, including myself, judge too much, without even knowing the person. When I was about 7 years old, my grandmother showed me this fruit I had never tried or even heard of or seen before. She showed me a grapefruit. I had never seen a grapefruit before. I had never heard of grapefruit before. So she told me to look at the grapefruit. She did not tell me anything about it. Me being the seven year old I was, I had no clue what it could be. I figured it would be food as it resembles an orange. So I freaked out and ran to the garbage and threw it out because I HATED oranges. My grandmother then told me that it was not an orange and that it was actually a grapefruit. And she then asked me if I wanted to try a piece as she took another one out of her fridge. I said no it looks disgusting I hate it, even though I had never tried one before, nor had I ever even seen or heard of one before. She said okay and grabbed something else out of the fridge. It was a clear container. It had some sort of pinkish cubed food inside of it. It was in some kind of liquid. She asked me if I wanted to try some. Me still being the seven year old I was, said yes and got really excited because it was pink and I was obsessed with pink and purple as a child. So I opened it and tried a piece. My grandmother looked at me and smiled as I enjoyed it. After I had finished the cup, she told me it was grapefruit. She taught me that I can’t base things on appearances. You have to try things, you have to get to know things before you can love them or hate them. And it’s the same thing with people. I really like I do not believe in love at first sight whatsoever. But I do think love exists. I do think it is a feeling you feel sometimes. However, nothing lasts forever. People fall out of love. People change. People grow up. People grow in and out of love. That’s life. And that’s the thing about marriage. It doesn’t always last. And I don’t think that there is anything wrong with that. But there are appropriate ways to back out of things, including love and marriage. We’re all still human and we all deserve to be treated right. I do think that some teenagers can fall in love. My parents fell in love while they were in high school. Didn’t get them very far in life seeing as they split when I was 5. However, close family friends of ours started dating in the ninth grade, and got married years later, had two kids, one of which is one of my best friends today, and they’re still happily married. I think it just depends on the people and the relationship.

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  10. I have never been in love, but its something i would love to experience. Having a great love is definitely something I believe in, but there is no one person that is perfectly created for you, the other half to your puzzle piece. I believe that teenagers can fall in love, but they can't expect their feelings to stay the same as they change and grow, as everyone does as a teenager.

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  11. I have never been in love. I've only had crushes. Having someone that cares about you, having someone to talk to, having someone to be there for you is/can be very comforting. And being able to care for someone so greatly is the best feeling ever. I think that everyone is destined to find a soulmate, eventually. I think that kids in high school rush it too much or they date kids in older/younger grades. Some people in our grade date kids in sec2 and then they put the date they started dating in their bios and then the next day it's gone. They can date but they're not in love. I say that because a lot of kids at school are immature and aren't ready for relationships, yet they force themselves into one because they think it's the "thing" to do nowadays. They feel so much pressure to date someone and when they do, it never lasts long because neither of them are ready for something serious.

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    1. Ikr some people date just so that they can say they are dating someone and don't actually have genuine feelings for them.

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  12. I don't know how I feel about love. I guess it's nice to have a partner to do things together. I don't think is destined to find their soulmate, a lot of people back then passed on without having any connection with male/female. I feel like people are more pressured nowadays to find a partner. I personally don't think there's an age at which it's OK to be in love. Kid, teen, adult or seniors should all have someone if it makes them happy and what not.

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    1. try everyone should have someone nice blog

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    2. I agree it’s crazy how the world is changing

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  14. i think that love is overrated.also nowadays it's not about love for us teens it's about the other more touchy touchy stuff if you know what i mean. although everyone will find there soulmate because there is someone in the world that you'll develop a certain relationship with. teens are able to fall in love but it's pretty fake love

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  16. I think that love is something that happens gradually, and I don't believe in love at first sight. I just find the whole idea of it really superficial. I think that love is a choice, not a feeling. Some people lose the feeling of ‘love’ after being together for a while. Falling in love could be something that happens without you realizing, but staying in love is a choice. I think that teenagers can fall in love, but I don’t think they fully understand what love is. We can confuse love with so many other things. There is alot of pressure to date someone when you are a teenager. I think that is stupid. You have your whole life ahead of you, so you should enjoy your life as a kid and not try to grow up too fast.

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  17. I think that love is an emotion. Personally, I think that everyone from at any age can fall in love. Even if I think people at any age can feel love, it might not be love that lasts. Mostly people at our age don't date or go out for love but instead the other thing (you can probably think of it). I think everybody on the face of this earth has a soulmate. They might not know it, but everyone has someone that they might or might not find.

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  18. I think love is something that we all find at some point. It could be today or years from now. But I think everyone will find love even if they don't know what it is yet. I think everyone has the chance to find their soulmate. I think some teens can fall in love but it's more of a superficial love. I have a boyfriend, we say we're in love and stuff which i do believe, it's true love but it's hard to say really. Were only teens. I think we can fall in love though it's a lot less likely when were teens.

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    1. I agree with you, love can sometimes be superficial, great blog

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  19. I think love is a tricky thing. I believe there is love, i believe people can fall in love, but i also believe that people can fall out of love too. Sometimes the emotion you feel at the beginning of something new and exciting wears off and becomes nothing special anymore. I think finding love is possible, i believe people can find that one person, their soulmate, to last a lifetime with, but i also believe that its rare. I think especially today, everyone wants something new and amazing, something cool to have and to brag about and comfort them when they need it, whether its with objects and belongings or even with people like boyfriends and girlfriends. But once they lose that special value, you discard them the same way you throw out socks with holes in them, they become useless so you get something new to make you happy again. I think love is something not everyone can understand. I think especially with teens, love is a messed up thing. I have friends who say they found ‘love’, but to be honest, i don't think people at a young age can't understand it fully. Nowadays people say they love or hate things just to change their minds the next day. Now reading over this blog, it sounds pretty negative, it sounds like i’m an expert saying love is a terrible thing, but i promise you, i am no expert. The only love i've ever felt is my love for a jar of nutella and i don’t even think it loves me back. I think everyone in their life is going to feel love, and heartbreak just as much. But i think (and i hope) that everyone can find their one true match, whether it’s tomorrow or in 30 years, i think everyone has a chance to find love, you just have to wait and see.

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  20. I think (on average), it is far more difficult for teenagers to find love than it is for adults, mostly because they haven't observed, not to mention experienced much "love"(other than from their families). I do in fact believe that everyone is destined to find their soulmate, but some (very few) might end up never finding true love with their soulmates.

    ok well im done stalling for words hope yall enjoyed the week and dance goonight

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    1. You’re ending made me laugh, glad to know I’m not the only one writing it during cleanup. Good blog.

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    2. Completely agree, Great blog!

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  21. Love is real. It probably isn’t something that we all fight in high school, because we can’t be expected to start off our lives with someone and expecting your relationship to change as much is you will. Though I think teenagers can find love, I don’t think lasting as they promise each other. People need to understand spending time alone in order to allow themselves to grow is as good an option as dating. The biggest concept about love that I disagree with is the idea of soulmates. There is no one person that is the other half to your puzzle piece, the one that’s perfectly designed to match every quirk in your personality. Nothing is perfect but you have to find someone who makes you happy, that’s what’s important.

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  22. Personally I don’t believe that each person is met for someone in specific and is extremely lucky if they ever meet them but I do believe in love. I believe that you can fall in love with anyone that you really enjoy spending time with and if you do fall in love then you should consider yourself very lucky. And I do believe that teenagers can fall in love in fact a family friend of mine is still married to their high school girlfriend.

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  23. I do not believe in love at first sight. It's impossible to find your soulmate by just looking at them. Love can be real but it can't be perfect. There has to be disagreements. Teenagers can fall in love but it's not a smart idea to get married in high school. I know married couples who met in high school and they're doing great. It's really rare to find your soulmate. You just have to find someone who can be around and imagine living with them for a long time.

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  24. Love is something your body "feel" to a preference of a person. It's a primal instinct, but it's also a good thing. I don't really believe in soulmates since that means that your future was decided/controlled. Anyone can fall in love even as a kid you can. It's an complicated thing that your not suppose to describe.

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