Wednesday, April 18, 2018

Blog 48 - Wednesday, April 18, 2018

Next school year, you will receive a mandatory 10 hours of SEX.Ed.

One of the topics will be about HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS.

What does  a healthy relationship look like?

Explain.

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39 comments:

  1. For a guy that hasn't had any relationships whatsoever (#Foreveralone), I'm going to give you advice on relationships based on the movies I've seen. A healthy relationships would be both parties spending an equal amount of time with each other as well as with your friends because friends play a big role in life. Both sides shouldn't disrespect each other and shouldn't be disloyal towards one another. Spending holidays with each other should become more common as your relationship grows and meeting each others parents should be done, just not immediately after the relationship just started. I'm going to leave sex out of the question because I have no idea what to do with that topic. Also, more sex-ed...yay. Because grade 3 wasn't brutal enough for me.

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    1. Do not forget that even though friends play an important role, they can still ruin your relationship because they are jealous, be wise with who you trust young one.

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    2. I agree. Both people should make an effort in the relationship. It should never be one-sided! Great blog:)

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  2. Complicated question that is. A healthy relationship in my opinion is a group of people (dating), that get along very well but can still tell each other anything and everything. Not hiding the slightest detail from each other, whether it be about themselves or opinions on each other. You need trust and how can you trust someone if they don't tell you things? Exactly, you can't. Also a very important thing in a relationship is that you don't fight... too often. If you do fight a lot make sure you get along because eventually it'll ruin it. IMPORTANT POINT ALERT: consent, you gotta have consent, without the big C, you are not only a bad significant other, you are also a garbage human being. Make sure they are okay with whatever is happening, whether it be watching a movie together or coitus. Follow these rules and you have the basics.

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    1. Good blog. What you said about trust is really important. What you said about consent is really true as well!

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    3. Good blog, you’re point about trust was really good. How can you expect your relationship to go anywhere if you can’t trust them on their own?

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    4. I 100% percent agree with you. Both people should feel as though they have nothing to hide from each other. There should not be any secrets as it could cause problems in the long run. Great blog!

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  3. I think the best thing and most healthy thing about a relationship is that you are not only eachothers lovers; but that the person is also your bestfriend. That you love spending time with them. It is also important that you trust eachother and tell eachother EVERYTHING. You shouldn't hide anything from your s/o because if the find out it could be seen as a sign of disrespect for the person. Another thing included in a healthy relationship is family; your parents should like your s/o and look at them as family. If they don't it's not the end of the world though. There are so many healthy things about a relationship so lets go over the unhealthy things; dishonesty, cheating, jealousy, abuse uncomfortableness, and regret. You also shouldn't be feeling unsure about your relationship. Remember that happiness is key. If your relationship doesn't make you happy you shouldn't be with them.

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    1. I completely agree! if you don't enjoy spendig time with someone, a relationship with them isn't worth it.

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  4. It’s really important to be in a healthy relationship. When you’re in a relationship, you need to be happy! If you’re not happy, maybe you should reconsider your relationship. I think that you should also be very comfortable around the person that you’re in a relationship with and trust them. You should never feel scared to talk to them! You need to voice your opinion and say what your comfortable with. I know so many people who were in or are still in unhealthy relationships and they regret them so much. I would say that that the most important thing to do is to prioritize your happiness, to not be scared to use your voice and to not rush things!

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    1. I completely agree. Happiness and trust are so important! Great blog!

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  5. Relationships aren’t only limited to the one person you choose to love and marry, but your friends and family too. I think that in a relationship, both you and your friend or whomever it is have to both give there all to the relationship. When you have a healthy relationship, you are able to trust and tell that other person things. Respect is a big thing. You shouldn't look down on them, just as they shouldn't to you.

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    1. I agree, that makes a relationship terrible!!!

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  6. A good relationship builds up slowly and not something you rush. it takes time for it to flourish. It also require both side to actually like each other. It's also that you do thing that you actually both agree together and not anything else. A healthy relationship doesn't mean that both side need to be "healthy" because there's the word healthy.

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  7. I think that a healthy relationship is a relationship where both people feel safe, are happy, and trust each other. I also think that everyone should be treated as equals in a good relationship. It is important also to not rush into things, because that can ruin a relationship. If you aren’t genuinely happy in a relationship, you should get out of it. In my opinion, if you and your partner have to lie to each other, you aren’t in a healthy relationship.

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    1. I agree. In a healthy relationship you should feel safe and happy. Nice blog!

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  8. I think that a healthy relationship is when the two people are loyal and faithful. A healthy relationship is when the two people involved are happy with each other, they dont fight over stupid little things. I have never had a realtionship but from what I see in movies, tv shows, real life is that the couple is happy, loyal. It's not a question of intimacy, or the sex, it's a question of if you're happy, if you're loyal, if you're faithful, if you feel safe in that relationship, if you're comfortable with the girl/boy you're with. You should never feel pressured to stay in a bad relationship JUST because other people want you to.

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    1. I completely agree with everything. Great blog!

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  9. I think that being in a good relationship with someone is being able to trust them and feeling comfortable around them. If you truly love someone and they love you, you shouldn’t have to change yourself for them. You shouldn’t have to do things differently or that you don’t want to do just to please them. Being in a healthy relationship with someone involves lots of communication and understanding. If you are your partner are always disagreeing and always pointing the finger, it’s not healthy. You need to be able to understand your partner and be open to what they have to say.

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    1. I agree you should always trust the person you are with

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  10. in my opinion a healthy relationship would be where someone is being true and trustworthy to the other person, where neither of them feel like they're second guessing the relationship in the first place. I have a saying where if your thinking somethings wrong, somethings probably wrong. you shouldn't have to think about the person your with, friends or more than that. I also think that for a healthy relationship to remain healthy you need to express yourself properly so they're no miscommunication. communication is key!

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    1. Trustworthy, good word. You need trust to have a healthy relationship.

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  11. I think that a healthy relation ship invols lots of communication. Communication allows you and your partner to have a deep understanding of each other, and allows you to connect. In a healthy relationship with good communication, both partners: Treat each other with respect. Speak openly to one another about thoughts and feelings. Feel heard when expressing feelings.

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    1. I agree! Communication is very important in a healthy relationship. Great blog.

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  12. I think a healthy relationship involves many things and qualities. You have to trust your partner. Be honest, communicate, be faithful, loyal, dedicated,etc. You should never hurt your partner physically or emotionally. You should definitely not WANT to hurt them. Your partner should make you happy every single day. Never be cruel or mean to your partner and if you love them then tell them. If you don’t then tell them. And you should respect your partner and be willing to make your relationship work.

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  13. I believe there are so many different aspects that make up a healthy relationship. I think the two most important aspects are trust and honesty. You have to be able to trust and respect them because you are going to share personal things with them and you want to trust that they can keep it to themselves or trust that they won't hurt you emotionally or physically. You also have to be honest with your partner. You don't want to hide things from them and I believe honesty plays a big part in trust. If you are honest with your partner, you can comfortably speak with them about your feelings and emotions. A major aspect as well is actually wanting to work through issues to make the relationship.

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  14. I don't really know but I think is 2 people being happy together and doing what they like with same interest and stuff. Helping each other through trouble. People need to be happy with each other otherwise things just wouldn't work out. You should feel comfortable about things you may have insecurities with that partner. That's what I think, cheers.

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  15. I think being in a good relationship is being with someone you trust, that you are able to tell anything to. I think both people should feel safe and never threatened by the other person. You should always be accepting of the person you are with. I definitely think that if something feels off its normally because there is something off in the relationship. And finally you should treat each other as equals.

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    1. i completely agree with you, trust and treating eachothers as equals is very important in any relationship, great blog

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  16. As a person who though hasn’t had any important relationships but has been around quite a few toxic ones, I can say that one of the most important parts of the relationship is that there isn’t more power given to one over the other. I’m not saying that people should try and fight every decision that’s made opposite to theirs, but both parties should be considered equal. There is always something wrong if one person makes all the decisions and silences the other’s opinions. Another important thing is communication. Assuming what someone’s thinking is never a good start to a conversation, so do them a favor and tell them what you really think. Miscommunication is frustrating for both, and can lead to a breakup, so save the heartbreak and just spill it. The last thing is to make sure both are in the realationship for the right reasons, and make sure you’re happy!

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    1. I think that to have a good relationship you have to communicate too. Great blog

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  17. A healthy relationship is when both people in the relationship are happy, they love the other person, and when they both put effort into their relationship. They have to be able to open up to each other too and not keep secrets. They should never make assumptions about the other person without talking to them first. Both people should be happy and be able to feel comfortable with the other and not feel pressured to do anything.

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  18. something that i believe is very important in any relationship is trust. I believe that you cant truly have a healthy relationship with someone if you dont trust them and if they dont have trust in you. I believe that a relationship is like a 2 way street, if you want to be loved, and treated with care and respect then you must be able to give that to the other person. personally i find that if you want to have a good relationship, you should get with someone who makes you feel good about yourself, picks you up when you are down, makes you laugh and is willing to do the craziest stuff with you at 2 in the morning.

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  19. I think it is very important that we have sex education in classes. It assures that we use protection when having a relationship to protect us from unexpected pregnancies and STIs. A healthy relationship starts with happiness from both people in the relationship. If one of them is unhappy, it is important that they speak to the other person. Relationships should not be controlled by either person, they should be relaxed and stress free. It is important that both people are happy with each other, this is required for a perfect relationship.

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  20. I believe that a healthy relationship consists of both people being completely comfortable to voice their opinion without being judge by the other. There should not be any secrets kept from both sides ever, as that could cause a conflict in the future. Having been in one, I could tell you that it is key to be feel happy and comfortable with the other.

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  21. A healthy relationship to me is two people who really enjoy being together whenever you are, this doesn’t mean that you should never argue because sometimes it’s healthy to disagree with eachother and say what you really need to. That asleep has to do with communication which is very important in a relationship. Another important factor is obviously the physicality. If your partner can’t satisfy your needs then he/she can’t be a good partner

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